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7 LEVEL OF HUMAN BEING FUNCTION [Chackra or Ducklas Gland]

1. MULADARA (Stable & Secure (money))

1. Am I making my spouse secure.
2. Am I providing security financially emotionally on the scale of 0 to 10, how much am I providing
3. At work place how much stability & security do I provide to my superior, to my colleagues, to those who work under me (subordinates), to my origination, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
4. Are you somebody who value stability in yourself and the other (spouse)?

2. SWADISTHANA (tip pf the spine)

- For pleasure, change or variety. Extreme indulge in pleasure leads to reduction in intelligence. Pleasure means, pleasure in sleep, eat & sex.

- If we know to say, ‘Enough’, we will have pleasure and intelligence.

1. How much of the variety (change & pleasure) do I provide to spouse with interaction to her in gesture, action & smile?
2. How much pleasure I provide & what ways I can improve it?
3. How much variety do I provide at work place? Am I someone who make-work lovable, enjoyable, game?
4. In what way can I make work & workplace more interesting?

3. MANIPURA (naval)

- For power, importance, significance, position (dangerous place)

- For importance, they hurt badly.

- Make others important, we become important. This is +ve manner.

1. How much of importance do I provide to my spouse in our conversation (day to day basis)? [No respect to women can develop arthritis to them]
2. At your work place do you make your superior unimportant?
3. Do you make your colleagues feel important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
4. Do you make your subordinates feel important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
5. Do you make your children feel important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
6. How much do your parent feels you as important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
7. How much do your team member feels you as important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
8. What action to be taken to make your team member feels you as important?

4. ANAHATHA (Heart Centre)

- Potential to love and connection.

- Love is a magical thing.

- Universe is guided by “Need to Love” and “Needed to Love (Need to be love)”

- Love is not fear, aggression, and possessiveness.

- Love enriches both parties.

- Love is causeless.

- “Love thy neighbor as yourself” – Jesus Christ.

- Set for a high standard & love to reach that standard.

- Fill the cavity in others hearts & you will feel very happy.

- Love yourself and God loves us.

- Connect with every one, even tortoise (age 100) and rhino (age 1) connect.

- Affection to be affected.

- Love is like water. (Water cut rock)

- Love is strong.

- Affectionate words (learn languages of affection) E.g.: little Meera hug & wiped the tears from her mother who slapped her due to the anger she had over her doubtful husband.

1. How far do I connect to my spouse and parents, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
2. How I feel when I see them in pain, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
3. How far I connect to my people in work place, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
4. How far do I connect to people in job, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
5. Do I share happiness?
6. Do I touch or hug?
7. Do I smile?
8. Do I look into people eyes?
9. Do I hold hands?
10. Do I use enduring words?

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6. RELATIONSHIP WITH SPOUSE

Don’t select a partner:

1. When you are deeply hurt by the parents.
2. When you are feeling depressed.

Select your partner:

1. When you integrate the head and heart.
2. When you listen to inner heart that is the sense of alignment.

For a Ideal Partner:

1. I will take care of her.
2. Define the meaning of independent & my secure within both of you.
3. Accept to take humiliation.
4. She must be Financially Abundance.
5. Feel grateful with each other and get prosperity.
6. Ask, “What changes am I prepared to make for the one I love because my habits, my life, everything comes after the person?”
7. Tell, “She/He is my most important” unconditional love.
8. Tell, “The happiness of my spouse is more important for me than everything else in the world. It is important than my carrier, than my property, than my achievements, desire and even my parents”
9. The sacrifice means give in love and pain for no return.
10. In marriage life there must be “give and take policy”.
11. Look for ideal relationship and create it with both of us.
12. Before marriage accept as he or she is.
13. Thank God for the body He has given me.
14. Love once roots, acceptance of intellectual capability.
15. To avoid the problem, think more of the problem and forget it forever.
16. 5 levels of Marriage.

Level of marriage	Nature
I	So much of love – Full love.
II	Not full love but some reduced
III	Live like room mates
IV	Planning to escape.
V	Divorce.

17. Ask, “ Are you living in dream?”
18. Ask, “ Why are you not taking to next level?”
19. If any intelligent effort put on our gift it grows.
20. Marriage regenerate when we don’t trying to change the other. E.g.: Don’t say, “If you change, I will be happy”. Because, trying other to change is like Framework activity and its expectance inevitably leads to hurt.
21. Tell, “Whenever I am dissatisfied in my relationship. I shall ask quality question & my question will be what is the framework I have created that does not fit this person into?”
22. Tell, “ My relationship is more important to me than my hurt and my humiliation”.

We must learn that what we do, our children will also do it, so do well so that our children also do well.

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5. RELATIONSHIP WITH CHILD

Before the child is born:

§ Enquire why do you want a Child?

§ Enquire are you ready to have a child?

§ Enquire whether the relationship with parents is set right?

§ Enquire whether the relationship with spouse is set right?

§ The newborn child carries the crucifix carried by the parent during pregnancy.

§ Look for a good time to conceive a child.

During Pregnancy:

§ When you conceive, let it be by prayer and ask for divine child.

§ In pregnancy, both father and mother must be happy.

§ Prepare to sacrifice world pleasure like watching TV serial.

§ During pregnancy, hear good music, have good taught, have good sight, be devotional, be pleasant and have great experience.

§ Don’t think of termination during pregnancy, it may make a bad mark in the child. E.g.: Movie ‘POWDER’

After Child is born:

§ First 6 hours of the childbirth, it has expanded thinking, it thinks strong on the surrounding environment.

§ Feel as a divine child when the child is born.

§ Use less light in the place of newborn child.

§ The tube connecting the child and mother can be cut after 5 min the child is born.

§ Keep the newborn child over the mothers belly for some time as soon as the child is born.

§ Then lower the baby in a tub of water, as it was present in a fluid state in mother’s womb.

§ Keep the newborn child near to mother’s heart to hear the sound of mother’s heart.

§ Keep the mother and newborn child alone for first 20 minutes. This is practiced in West Indies.

During the growth of the child:

§ During the growth of child read Panchatantra.

§ 3 Stage of Child

Stages	Age	Treatment
I	0 to 6	KING	Most important, no denial, no ‘NO’, it register the experience no language needed
II	7 to 14	PRINCE	Never ever compare, do all things happily like cleaning the house with joy, don’t scold them for telling lies as they tell it under natural compulsion.
III	After 14	FRIEND	Learn to tell ‘NO’ for some questions.

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4. RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS

LIFE IS RELATIONSHIP –

Parents, Spouse, Children, Equals, Relations, friends, Self

CONSCIOUS LEVEL –

Higher Conscious - Creative & Constructive, Slow and strong

Lower Conscious - Repetitive & Destructive, Compulsive (no control), Fast

Our lower conscious sent bad signal to other brain & creates bad response.

§ As per the doctor, the most important organ in our body is ‘HEART’

§ Problem of relationship with Father – Financial Problem

§ Problem of relationship with Mother – Obstacles in work

§ Life is relationship

§ Set right the above relationship and all the problems will be cleared.

§ Problem in relationship make the heart to sent bad signal to brain, this brain sent bad signal to other so bad signal comes from other. E.g.: To get money from other due to bad thinking it get delayed.

§ Love teaches us to live and grow.

§ If you experience other person sense that is love.

§ Loving them, it does not mean surrendering to them. It still has the difference.

§ Love has no fear but still we can love.

§ Love makes no body weak.

§ Love makes us strong and firm.

§ E.g.: Mahatma Gandhi fought for the deal of British but not against the person.

§ By hate we destroy us and not others.

§ Love is the only solution. It must be spontaneous.

§ Instead of seeing the man, see the factors.

§ With Parents, share & spent time with them.

§ Parent love to Children is greater than the children’s love to parents.

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3. TO RECREATE YOUR DESTINY.

§ Our identity determines our reaction and action to life.

§ Our identity governs our destiny.

CHAMPION:

§ He takes humility

§ He takes courage

§ He takes responsibility

§ If his team makes mistakes, he will tell that he has made the mistake.

§ If his team wins, he will tell that his team member has made the success.

§ He asks quality questions. E.g.:

1. How I am responsible for this?

2. How can I make this better?

3. What is it for me to learn?

§ For his own mistake, he see it and he clear it.

§ E.g.: Owner of Apple & Pixar

I AM A CHAMPION

To become a Champion do the following.

1. Restructuring my Identity.
2. Restructuring my Reaction & Responses to life.
3. Restructuring the habitual question that I ask

MIND:

1. It is its tendency to give meaning to things.
2. To know things and give meaning to things.
3. What we think in Pain & Pleasure make us to belief.

BELIEF:

A powerful standard consciousness – creates and destroys

Universal Law of Belief:

1. As you see and belief, so it be
2. Positive thinking means positive happens
3. I am that

Law of Prayer: GOOD PRAYER + GOOD BELIEF = GOOD RESULTS

IDENTIFY THE SUCCESS:

§ KALPANA – My greatest blessing is my daughter – My daughter will fulfill my life fulfillment.

FEAR:

1. Fear 2 types, 1.Biological Fear, 2.Psychological Fear.
2. Fear is my imagination it is not real.
3. Behind fear is a destructive belief.
4. Instead of the teacher having the fear & doing well, she can have inspiration & do well because it can bring success and perfectness.

Exercise.

DESTRUCTIVE BELIEF
Financial Belief	Health Belief	Relationship Belief	Belief about Self Esteem
If loss of job	Fat & bad practice	Anger & communication problem	Fear

CONSTRUCTIVE BELIEF
Financial Belief	Health Belief	Relationship Belief	Belief about Self Esteem
I have knowledge of my job, so I can survive anywhere. My Boss will provide me car	Timely food and good habits	Love everyone & I have humor, people love me.	No fear, I will be a leader, lead many and will be love by everyone.
I can become a great consultant with many business	I have a very healthy body & am a magnet who attracts many persons	Many CEO’s will be my friends and all my friends and family members love me.	Every day for the success, I will be expressed in Newspaper

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4 KINDS OF PEOPLE

TYPE	KINDS OF PEOPLE	CHARACTER
1	WINDOW SHOPPER	Curiosity, stays outside
2	DABLERS	Commit himself but afraid of deep relationship, never complete anything
3	FANATICS	An adamantine view on any thing, afraid of changing their views, equates change with failure
4	WARRIORS	Thirst for truth, he does not stop.

ASK WHO ARE YOU?

9 BABY BREAK THRUS FOR BABY BREAK THRUS

1. Knowing the secret.

2. Success mantra

3. To recreate your destiny.

4. Relationship with Parents

5. Relationship with Child

6. Relationship with Spouse

7. Know the difference between success and failure.

8. Technique of actual change breakdown to break thru.

9. To manifest the mission of life.

1. KNOWING THE SECRET

SUCCESS: Having the right rules and abiding by them.

RULES:

1. I SHALL NOT BE NONITOL BUT SHALL EXPLORE LIFE LIKE A CHILD

2. I SHALL BE A CHILD AND ENQUIRE

3. I SHALL BE A WARRIOR AND TO LIKE PROCESS NO MATTER HOW PAINFUL OR PLEASURABLE IT MIGHT BE.

4. I PROMISE THAT MY FULLNESS PARTICIPATION IN THE BREAKTHROW AND HELP OTHER PARTICIPATE. I SHALL NOT A HINDEROUS TO ANYONE.

CHANGE NOW & HERE, Break down to break thru state is for relationship and financial uplift.

ORDINARY TO EXRTAORDINARY –1.Secret, 2.Technology.

LAW OF LIFE: [SECRET] - Whatever is in our inner state is our external state.

2. SUCCESS MANTRA

SUCCESS – Achievement – It is a state of being conscious.

INTENT + EFFORT + GRACE = SUCCESS.

§ Anything acknowledged grows

§ Anything mot acknowledged dies

a) INTENT (Desire) (in Latin – Cutoff)

E.g.: For healthy body - cutoff unhealthy habits.

For financial break throw - cutoff laziness, luxury, procrastination, fear, our enough concept

INTENT in my life:	CUTOFF these:
1. Wonderful human being filled with love.	1. Anger
2. Richest person and be like king	2. Laziness
3. Healthy body	3. Unhealthy practices
4. Loved by everyone	4. Hatred
5. A good leader, inspiring others.	5. Fear.

“WHEN I AM FOCUSSED, ALL THINGS FALL INTO PLACE.”

b) EFFORT:

1. Effort must always be self nourishing

2. It should be mutually nourishing.

c) GRACE:

§ It is a force, I can access when I want.

§ It is like a internet and works as a network.

§ It does amazing activity by fulfilling our needs.

§ God is a body and we are His cells.