5. RELATIONSHIP WITH CHILD
Before the child is born:
§ Enquire why do you want a Child?
§ Enquire are you ready to have a child?
§ Enquire whether the relationship with parents is set right?
§ Enquire whether the relationship with spouse is set right?
§ The newborn child carries the crucifix carried by the parent during pregnancy.
§ Look for a good time to conceive a child.
During Pregnancy:
§ When you conceive, let it be by prayer and ask for divine child.
§ In pregnancy, both father and mother must be happy.
§ Prepare to sacrifice world pleasure like watching TV serial.
§ During pregnancy, hear good music, have good taught, have good sight, be devotional, be pleasant and have great experience.
§ Don’t think of termination during pregnancy, it may make a bad mark in the child. E.g.: Movie ‘POWDER’
After Child is born:
§ First 6 hours of the childbirth, it has expanded thinking, it thinks strong on the surrounding environment.
§ Feel as a divine child when the child is born.
§ Use less light in the place of newborn child.
§ The tube connecting the child and mother can be cut after 5 min the child is born.
§ Keep the newborn child over the mothers belly for some time as soon as the child is born.
§ Then lower the baby in a tub of water, as it was present in a fluid state in mother’s womb.
§ Keep the newborn child near to mother’s heart to hear the sound of mother’s heart.
§ Keep the mother and newborn child alone for first 20 minutes. This is practiced in
During the growth of the child:
§ During the growth of child read Panchatantra.
§ 3 Stage of Child
| Stages | Age | Treatment | |
| I | 0 to 6 | KING | Most important, no denial, no ‘NO’, it register the experience no language needed |
| II | 7 to 14 | PRINCE | Never ever compare, do all things happily like cleaning the house with joy, don’t scold them for telling lies as they tell it under natural compulsion. |
| III | After 14 | FRIEND | Learn to tell ‘NO’ for some questions. |
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