NEVER GIVEUP

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-9

8. TECHNIQUE OF ACTUAL CHANGE BREAKDOWN TO BREAK THRU.

§ The break down states are,

1. Quitting attitude, Quitter.

2. Destructive emotion, suffering and pain.

3. Addictions

§ Due to addiction, when we want to do, we will loss our self-respect.

§ Some are addicted to suffering, so they don’t want to relive from (i.e.) to come out there suffering. E.g.: To sorrow man, if we say to him to be happy, he will become angry.

§ If you chow over the past that is bitter, that past will replicate again in future.

§ Don’t harm the alive in memory of the death.

§ For Suicide – for changing anyone, if we suicide they will not change instead the problem will only increase.

§ Addiction is due to

1. People try to escape from un-solving matters.

2. It is attractive.

3. It gives us a High / Josh

FEELINGS [BREAK THRU]	EMOTIONS [BREAK DOWN]
1. Love	1. Pain / Suffering
2. Oneness	2. Loneliness
3. Happiness	3. Fear & Insecurity
4. Passion	4. Frustration / Dissatisfaction
5. Compassion	5. Humiliation
6. Enthusiasm	6. Guilt / Shame
7. Bliss	7. Self Pity
8. Thrill	8. Jealousy / Comparison
9. Gratitude	9. Violence (more hate)
10. Satisfaction & contentment	10. Inferiority
11. Peace	11. Hared
	12. Suspicion
	13. Stress & Tension

9. TO MANIFEST THE MISSION OF LIFE.

WE BECOME WHAT WE LOVE

WE BECOME WHAT WE HATE

WE BECOME WHAT WE FEAR

BREAK DOWN STATE			BREAK THRU STATE
I	Body Posture		I	Body Posture
II	Image		II	Image
III	Words		III	Words
IV	Conflicting Inner Dialogue		IV	Inner Incantation
V	Emotion		V	Feeling
			VI	Prayer

Inner Incantation: It has tone & it has a Sprit.

I CAN, I WILL, I AM A CHAMPION, I AM A WARRIOR, I CAN WIN HEARTS.

BREAK THRU SPIRAL
I	I am that
II	Secret of success
III	Recreating your destiny.
IV	Relationship with Parents
V	Relationship with Children
VI	Relationship with Spouse
VII	7 Mansions
VIII	Vision (every day check it)
IX	Body Posture
X	Image
XI	Words
XII	Inner Incantation
XIII	Feeling
XIV	Prayer

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-8

7. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUCCESS AND FAILURE.

States in Brain

STATES	NAME		BRAIN CYCLE, cycle/sec	CHARACTER
1	Beta	b	14 to 40	Common man
2	Alpha	a	7 to 14	Deep relaxed, Ideal for creativity & intelligence, like passive lake.
3	Teta	d	3 to 7	Very few thought, semi-functionality, in-between state of conscious.
4	Delta	D	Less than 3	Sammadhi state, completely non-functional, complete state of meditation.

In Alpha state, speak in board meeting, face interview, face exams, play.

Take 5 Important Decisions.

5 Important Decisions: (To me)

1. Obey and be calm with mother and father.

2. Do any thing with interest.

3. I feel myself important & make others feel important.

4. Stand on the others shoes and feel them.

5. I am a Champion and a Warrior.

§ Telling that the world is bad, turn 180 degree and see whether my assumption is wrong?

§ All assumptions are liar.

§ What differentiate the ordinary from extraordinary is the their passion (deep interest)

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-7

5. VISHUDDHI (-ve Taught)

- We judge people and we start asking fundamental questions.

- Human mind need an issue to chow.

- No issue then the mind will create issues.

- Hunger, fear, lust and sleep, why this 4 alone for human?

- Mind will ask questions from an answer.

- The problem of fundamental question & judgment is the -ve side.

- The acceptance and surrender is the +ve side. E.g.: “So be it the divine will” by Chinese farmer. I. Lost 1 horse. II Got 6+1 horse. III. His son lost his leg over the horse. IV. For war, he was left.

- Our own judgments provide bad things in other. E.g.: the scolding of teacher bring bad thing in child.

- Point 4 & 5 are true human.

1. How much acceptance has you able to bring to your spouse? In spouse body, beauty is not the criteria.
2. How much do I accept my own inherent potential? Asserts you have created?
3. How much do I make people feel accepted?
4. What is the fundamental question in which the large part of the life was wasted?

6. AJNA (eyebrow center) (makes command)

- Potential 1. Growth & expansion, 2. Sharing & contribution.

- Giving a car as gift to anyone, we cannot get love from him or her.

- Love must be built for days to days.

- Unless we learn we cannot grow.

- For usual job thing and learn to market it better.

- Ajna is the center of intelligence.

• Growth and learning

1. Am focussed on growth and learning, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?

2. What kind of leaner am I today?

3. By learning, how much have I brought to my profession, in past 3 years?

4. How much growth I have seen in my profession, in past 3 years, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?

5. Am I happy with my growth?

· Sharing & contribution (highest & noblest cause of life)

1. Am I somebody who value contribution?
2. Are you some body who help people grow?
3. Do I take pleasure in contributing?
4. Do I contribute what situation demands?
5. What do I usually contribute to others? (We contribute what situation demands)
6. Has your contribution expand over year? Is it in same level?
7. Do you contribute growth to people consciously?
8. Is your radius of influence expanding?
9. Ask, “ How could I help you?”

7. SAHASRARA (1000 petal rose)

- Grown of your head.

- It is a gift. It is a benediction.

1. How do I get causeless unending bliss?

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-6

7 LEVEL OF HUMAN BEING FUNCTION [Chackra or Ducklas Gland]

1. MULADARA (Stable & Secure (money))

1. Am I making my spouse secure.
2. Am I providing security financially emotionally on the scale of 0 to 10, how much am I providing
3. At work place how much stability & security do I provide to my superior, to my colleagues, to those who work under me (subordinates), to my origination, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
4. Are you somebody who value stability in yourself and the other (spouse)?

2. SWADISTHANA (tip pf the spine)

- For pleasure, change or variety. Extreme indulge in pleasure leads to reduction in intelligence. Pleasure means, pleasure in sleep, eat & sex.

- If we know to say, ‘Enough’, we will have pleasure and intelligence.

1. How much of the variety (change & pleasure) do I provide to spouse with interaction to her in gesture, action & smile?
2. How much pleasure I provide & what ways I can improve it?
3. How much variety do I provide at work place? Am I someone who make-work lovable, enjoyable, game?
4. In what way can I make work & workplace more interesting?

3. MANIPURA (naval)

- For power, importance, significance, position (dangerous place)

- For importance, they hurt badly.

- Make others important, we become important. This is +ve manner.

1. How much of importance do I provide to my spouse in our conversation (day to day basis)? [No respect to women can develop arthritis to them]
2. At your work place do you make your superior unimportant?
3. Do you make your colleagues feel important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
4. Do you make your subordinates feel important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
5. Do you make your children feel important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
6. How much do your parent feels you as important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
7. How much do your team member feels you as important, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
8. What action to be taken to make your team member feels you as important?

4. ANAHATHA (Heart Centre)

- Potential to love and connection.

- Love is a magical thing.

- Universe is guided by “Need to Love” and “Needed to Love (Need to be love)”

- Love is not fear, aggression, and possessiveness.

- Love enriches both parties.

- Love is causeless.

- “Love thy neighbor as yourself” – Jesus Christ.

- Set for a high standard & love to reach that standard.

- Fill the cavity in others hearts & you will feel very happy.

- Love yourself and God loves us.

- Connect with every one, even tortoise (age 100) and rhino (age 1) connect.

- Affection to be affected.

- Love is like water. (Water cut rock)

- Love is strong.

- Affectionate words (learn languages of affection) E.g.: little Meera hug & wiped the tears from her mother who slapped her due to the anger she had over her doubtful husband.

1. How far do I connect to my spouse and parents, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
2. How I feel when I see them in pain, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
3. How far I connect to my people in work place, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
4. How far do I connect to people in job, rate ‘between 0 to 10’?
5. Do I share happiness?
6. Do I touch or hug?
7. Do I smile?
8. Do I look into people eyes?
9. Do I hold hands?
10. Do I use enduring words?

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-5

6. RELATIONSHIP WITH SPOUSE

Don’t select a partner:

1. When you are deeply hurt by the parents.
2. When you are feeling depressed.

Select your partner:

1. When you integrate the head and heart.
2. When you listen to inner heart that is the sense of alignment.

For a Ideal Partner:

1. I will take care of her.
2. Define the meaning of independent & my secure within both of you.
3. Accept to take humiliation.
4. She must be Financially Abundance.
5. Feel grateful with each other and get prosperity.
6. Ask, “What changes am I prepared to make for the one I love because my habits, my life, everything comes after the person?”
7. Tell, “She/He is my most important” unconditional love.
8. Tell, “The happiness of my spouse is more important for me than everything else in the world. It is important than my carrier, than my property, than my achievements, desire and even my parents”
9. The sacrifice means give in love and pain for no return.
10. In marriage life there must be “give and take policy”.
11. Look for ideal relationship and create it with both of us.
12. Before marriage accept as he or she is.
13. Thank God for the body He has given me.
14. Love once roots, acceptance of intellectual capability.
15. To avoid the problem, think more of the problem and forget it forever.
16. 5 levels of Marriage.

Level of marriage	Nature
I	So much of love – Full love.
II	Not full love but some reduced
III	Live like room mates
IV	Planning to escape.
V	Divorce.

17. Ask, “ Are you living in dream?”
18. Ask, “ Why are you not taking to next level?”
19. If any intelligent effort put on our gift it grows.
20. Marriage regenerate when we don’t trying to change the other. E.g.: Don’t say, “If you change, I will be happy”. Because, trying other to change is like Framework activity and its expectance inevitably leads to hurt.
21. Tell, “Whenever I am dissatisfied in my relationship. I shall ask quality question & my question will be what is the framework I have created that does not fit this person into?”
22. Tell, “ My relationship is more important to me than my hurt and my humiliation”.

We must learn that what we do, our children will also do it, so do well so that our children also do well.