Thursday, February 7, 2008

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-4

5. RELATIONSHIP WITH CHILD

Before the child is born:

§ Enquire why do you want a Child?

§ Enquire are you ready to have a child?

§ Enquire whether the relationship with parents is set right?

§ Enquire whether the relationship with spouse is set right?

§ The newborn child carries the crucifix carried by the parent during pregnancy.

§ Look for a good time to conceive a child.

During Pregnancy:

§ When you conceive, let it be by prayer and ask for divine child.

§ In pregnancy, both father and mother must be happy.

§ Prepare to sacrifice world pleasure like watching TV serial.

§ During pregnancy, hear good music, have good taught, have good sight, be devotional, be pleasant and have great experience.

§ Don’t think of termination during pregnancy, it may make a bad mark in the child. E.g.: Movie ‘POWDER’

After Child is born:

§ First 6 hours of the childbirth, it has expanded thinking, it thinks strong on the surrounding environment.

§ Feel as a divine child when the child is born.

§ Use less light in the place of newborn child.

§ The tube connecting the child and mother can be cut after 5 min the child is born.

§ Keep the newborn child over the mothers belly for some time as soon as the child is born.

§ Then lower the baby in a tub of water, as it was present in a fluid state in mother’s womb.

§ Keep the newborn child near to mother’s heart to hear the sound of mother’s heart.

§ Keep the mother and newborn child alone for first 20 minutes. This is practiced in West Indies.

During the growth of the child:

§ During the growth of child read Panchatantra.

§ 3 Stage of Child

Stages

Age

Treatment

I

0 to 6

KING

Most important, no denial, no ‘NO’, it register the experience no language needed

II

7 to 14

PRINCE

Never ever compare, do all things happily like cleaning the house with joy, don’t scold them for telling lies as they tell it under natural compulsion.

III

After 14

FRIEND

Learn to tell ‘NO’ for some questions.

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-3

4. RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS

LIFE IS RELATIONSHIP –

Parents, Spouse, Children, Equals, Relations, friends, Self

CONSCIOUS LEVEL –

Higher Conscious - Creative & Constructive, Slow and strong

Lower Conscious - Repetitive & Destructive, Compulsive (no control), Fast

Our lower conscious sent bad signal to other brain & creates bad response.

§ As per the doctor, the most important organ in our body is ‘HEART’

§ Problem of relationship with Father – Financial Problem

§ Problem of relationship with Mother – Obstacles in work

§ Life is relationship

§ Set right the above relationship and all the problems will be cleared.

§ Problem in relationship make the heart to sent bad signal to brain, this brain sent bad signal to other so bad signal comes from other. E.g.: To get money from other due to bad thinking it get delayed.

§ Love teaches us to live and grow.

§ If you experience other person sense that is love.

§ Loving them, it does not mean surrendering to them. It still has the difference.

§ Love has no fear but still we can love.

§ Love makes no body weak.

§ Love makes us strong and firm.

§ E.g.: Mahatma Gandhi fought for the deal of British but not against the person.

§ By hate we destroy us and not others.

§ Love is the only solution. It must be spontaneous.

§ Instead of seeing the man, see the factors.

§ With Parents, share & spent time with them.

§ Parent love to Children is greater than the children’s love to parents.

Monday, December 31, 2007

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-2

3. TO RECREATE YOUR DESTINY.

§ Our identity determines our reaction and action to life.

§ Our identity governs our destiny.

CHAMPION:

§ He takes humility

§ He takes courage

§ He takes responsibility

§ If his team makes mistakes, he will tell that he has made the mistake.

§ If his team wins, he will tell that his team member has made the success.

§ He asks quality questions. E.g.:

1. How I am responsible for this?

2. How can I make this better?

3. What is it for me to learn?

§ For his own mistake, he see it and he clear it.

§ E.g.: Owner of Apple & Pixar

I AM A CHAMPION

To become a Champion do the following.

  1. Restructuring my Identity.
  2. Restructuring my Reaction & Responses to life.
  3. Restructuring the habitual question that I ask

MIND:

  1. It is its tendency to give meaning to things.
  2. To know things and give meaning to things.
  3. What we think in Pain & Pleasure make us to belief.

BELIEF:

A powerful standard consciousness – creates and destroys

Universal Law of Belief:

  1. As you see and belief, so it be
  2. Positive thinking means positive happens
  3. I am that

Law of Prayer: GOOD PRAYER + GOOD BELIEF = GOOD RESULTS

IDENTIFY THE SUCCESS:

§ KALPANA – My greatest blessing is my daughter – My daughter will fulfill my life fulfillment.

FEAR:

  1. Fear 2 types, 1.Biological Fear, 2.Psychological Fear.
  2. Fear is my imagination it is not real.
  3. Behind fear is a destructive belief.
  4. Instead of the teacher having the fear & doing well, she can have inspiration & do well because it can bring success and perfectness.

Exercise.

DESTRUCTIVE BELIEF

Financial Belief

Health Belief

Relationship Belief

Belief about Self Esteem

If loss of job

Fat & bad practice

Anger & communication problem

Fear

CONSTRUCTIVE BELIEF

Financial Belief

Health Belief

Relationship Belief

Belief about Self Esteem

I have knowledge of my job, so I can survive anywhere. My Boss will provide me car

Timely food and good habits

Love everyone & I have humor, people love me.

No fear, I will be a leader, lead many and will be love by everyone.

I can become a great consultant with many business

I have a very healthy body & am a magnet who attracts many persons

Many CEO’s will be my friends and all my friends and family members love me.

Every day for the success, I will be expressed in Newspaper

Thursday, December 20, 2007

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW-PART1

POSSIBILITIES – BREAKTHROW – PART-1

4 KINDS OF PEOPLE

TYPE

KINDS OF PEOPLE

CHARACTER

1

WINDOW SHOPPER

Curiosity, stays outside

2

DABLERS

Commit himself but afraid of deep relationship, never complete anything

3

FANATICS

An adamantine view on any thing, afraid of changing their views, equates change with failure

4

WARRIORS

Thirst for truth, he does not stop.

ASK WHO ARE YOU?

9 BABY BREAK THRUS FOR BABY BREAK THRUS

1. Knowing the secret.

2. Success mantra

3. To recreate your destiny.

4. Relationship with Parents

5. Relationship with Child

6. Relationship with Spouse

7. Know the difference between success and failure.

8. Technique of actual change breakdown to break thru.

9. To manifest the mission of life.

1. KNOWING THE SECRET

SUCCESS: Having the right rules and abiding by them.

RULES:

1. I SHALL NOT BE NONITOL BUT SHALL EXPLORE LIFE LIKE A CHILD

2. I SHALL BE A CHILD AND ENQUIRE

3. I SHALL BE A WARRIOR AND TO LIKE PROCESS NO MATTER HOW PAINFUL OR PLEASURABLE IT MIGHT BE.

4. I PROMISE THAT MY FULLNESS PARTICIPATION IN THE BREAKTHROW AND HELP OTHER PARTICIPATE. I SHALL NOT A HINDEROUS TO ANYONE.

CHANGE NOW & HERE, Break down to break thru state is for relationship and financial uplift.

ORDINARY TO EXRTAORDINARY –1.Secret, 2.Technology.

LAW OF LIFE: [SECRET] - Whatever is in our inner state is our external state.

2. SUCCESS MANTRA

SUCCESS – Achievement – It is a state of being conscious.

INTENT + EFFORT + GRACE = SUCCESS.

§ Anything acknowledged grows

§ Anything mot acknowledged dies

a) INTENT (Desire) (in Latin – Cutoff)

E.g.: For healthy body - cutoff unhealthy habits.

For financial break throw - cutoff laziness, luxury, procrastination, fear, our enough concept

INTENT in my life:

CUTOFF these:

1. Wonderful human being filled with love.

1. Anger

2. Richest person and be like king

2. Laziness

3. Healthy body

3. Unhealthy practices

4. Loved by everyone

4. Hatred

5. A good leader, inspiring others.

5. Fear.

“WHEN I AM FOCUSSED, ALL THINGS FALL INTO PLACE.”

b) EFFORT:

1. Effort must always be self nourishing

2. It should be mutually nourishing.

c) GRACE:

§ It is a force, I can access when I want.

§ It is like a internet and works as a network.

§ It does amazing activity by fulfilling our needs.

§ God is a body and we are His cells.

Eid Mubarak